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Altadena, CA. Hopefully I can post a map of Europe sometime this summer.
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29 October, 2008

Getting The Story Straight

Below is an email my dad sent in response to my last blog post about his service with the Peace Corps. Anything I interject to help tell the story will be in [italics]. It's always fascinating to learn that about my parents life before Ray, Matt and I stepped onto the scene.

"Hi guys,

Have to make some corrections/elaborations to Danny's last blog.

I did not join the Peace Corps to avoid Vietnam. I had an M.A.T. [M.A.T. Master of Arts Teaching right?], with a likely career in teaching (as did mother and brother John), and teachers got draft deferments, as did Peace Corps Volunteers. When I got back from two years in the Peace Corps I taught for a year, with a deferment, and could have kept that deferment indefinitely. It's only when I left teaching to take a grant at the East West Center that I had an interesting adventure with my draft board. But that's another story.

I joined the Peace Corps in 1963 because I wanted to be of service. Kennedy was inspiring, as is Obama. The Peace Corps invited me to join a group for the Philippines. I accepted, even though I learned that the diet in the Philippines is fish and rice, and I was strictly meat and potatoes. When I returned from the Philippines in 1965 I weighed 128 lbs and looked like I had just left a concentration camp.

Our Peace Corps training consisted of about 3 months at San Francisco State University, followed by a week's leave at home and then two weeks on the Big Island, one of them in Waipio Valley. Conditions in Waipio were rather primitive (I was in the group living in the Borneo longhouse, with no beds and no mosquito nets). Psychiatrists lurked in the bushes, observing us to determine who was neurotic or psychotic enough to merit "deselection" (as we irreverently called it) [Today it would be called "voted off the island"]. Being peered at by half-concealed psychiatrists provokes either laughter or neuroses.

Our group was a teaching group. Having an M.A.T., (as well as a B.S. in biology) I was assigned to Leyte Normal School, a college which produces teachers. Others were assigned to elementary or secondary schools. I was charged with methods of teaching science and health. Two other volunteers had math and english. (Jon Curtis and Auntie Apple had math at different times). We would get the best students, who would spend three weeks, all day, just with one of us teachers on one subject, then rotate to the others. At the end of 9 weeks they would go into the field to student-teaching assignments, and we would go out to observe them. Your mother was a student in the second of three semesters I did there. We got interested in each other, but couldn't pursue anything personal until she had moved out of the class. One of my other students was Auntie Monina, who came back to Minnesota with me and got a four-year scholarship at St. Catherine's University. At least 5 other of my students eventually wound up in the U.S. They were a very bright group.

Besides my regular three semesters at L.N.S., I spent 2 summer sessions in Moro Country -- one at Mindanao State University in Marawi and one at an MSU program in Bongao (most people think of it as Tawi-Tawi). Everybody got along pretty well in those places in those days -- about 90% Muslim and 10% Christian. Now the place has a Muslim separatist movement, terrorist training camps, etc. A haole [Caucasian for you folks who've never heard the pidgin english term] like me would not be safe there nowadays.

After teaching a year in St. Paul, ('65-'66) I got the grant at the East-West Center. The program I was in involved getting a graduate degree at U.H., and I got mine in Public Health. Your mother got admitted to the Graduate School in Education. We both showed up in Honolulu in the summer of 1967. It was a coincidence that involved a bit of plotting and scheming, mail drops, Auntie Apple, etc. Nanay [My moms, mom - my grandma] guys would not have let your mother come if they had any idea that I was also going to be in Honolulu. But that's another story."


Pretty interesting... I hope he sends me more stories... How about your draft board and the East West Center?


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23 October, 2008

Dan Rather Does It Again.

Ever wonder how your parents met? I know how mine did. With the radical diversity of my ancestry (for the record, as far as I know, I'm mostly Filipino, Irish, with some French, and Chinese), I had to know how my parents got together and made me and my brothers.

If my mother was to tell the story, these are the details I remember. My father joined the Peace Corps to get out of the draft for the Vietnam War. He was first assigned to Hawai'i (the Big Island) for his "boot camp", then sent to the Philippines where he taught biology. There, he met my mother who was a student of his. They fell in love. He moved back to Hawai'i where she eventually joined him and they got married and made babies.

I'm sure my father has a similar take on the whole story. The part that always interested me was his joining of the Peace Corps. I had thoughts of joining the Peace Corps and following in his footsteps, but as my life progressed, I found my path flowing elsewhere.

For those with HD (High Definition) television in one form or another, check to see if you receive HDNet as one of you channels. I said it before and I'll say it again, the hour long "Dan Rather Reports" is a terrific example of investigative journalism. "Bikini Destinations", also on HDNet, is an example of awful awful television... But I digress.

This week, Dan Rather had an interesting story about the resurgence of the Peace Corps. The Peace Corps was founded in 1961 by President Kennedy as a way to serve the country in a peaceful manner. Back then, it was marketed to baby boomers just graduating from college. The image of a Peace Corps volunteer many years was of a beatnik, a hippie who was trying to avoid serving in the army.

Today, the resurgence of the Peace Corps is mostly due to, believe it or not, retiring baby boomers. Dan Rather followed a retired couple who were volunteering in Jamaica. The wife had always wanted to join the Peace Corps, instead, she got married and raised a family. Now in retirement, she convinced her husband to join. Together they serve a small community far from the touristy part of Jamaica. They teach the children how to use computers and organize the record keeping at the local hospital. They even spend days doing the back breaking work of clearing brush to create a soccer field.

It gives me hope. Maybe one day when I retire, I can convince Nicole to join the Peace Corps and we too can do something to help. That's off in the future though. Right now, I just gotta get through years of changing poopie diapers.


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17 October, 2008

Not Gonna Do It.

I know I said I was going to write about the whole birth of Sean Patrick. But I decided, I don't think I want to. I'm not sure I want to turn my blog into a regular posting about my son and all the wonderful and amazing things he's doing. Granted, right now, he's the most important thing in my life and I love him to pieces. But I started this blog over a year ago... Well I don't know why I started this blog really. I had a story to tell about my adventures in Nigeria and then never stopped writing. But I don't want to turn it into a place for me to post pictures of Sean Patrick and talk about the cute gurgling noises he makes. I think this blog was for me to tell stories and share opinions about the world around me. I could be wrong, I think I've kind of lost my way.

So don't expect to read here about the 12 hours of labor and then the day and 1/2 of recovery. It's interesting, but I think everyone's heard it. Or heard someone else tell their story. Not gonna do it.

With that said, I got nuthin. I've not done much lately besides care for my family. I got a job offer for a short week tour, but it's too soon I think. Not to mention I have no idea how to run the console they are providing. Nicole's dad comes in next week and I have two days at Mun2. That might provide something to say.

But I'll shut up for now. And go back to catching up with the TV show, "Heroes".




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15 October, 2008

A Hearty Debate on the Final Presidential Debate Night.

Nope, not getting political on this one. Tonight's hearty debate is about the return of Lance Armstrong to professional cycling.

I have stated in the past that I'm not convinced that he is coming back for the right reasons. But in a recent announcement, he states that he intends to ride the Giro d'Italia, or the Tour of Italy, the second greatest stage race in the world (The Tour de France being number one, of course), and skip the Tour de France. Why skip the Tour de France? Because the media circus that surrounds the greatest race in the world would acutally hamper his efforts to raise global awareness about the cancer struggle.

I believe these statements to be true. Maybe not for the noble reasons Mr. Armstrong might say. But perhaps more of a peace offering to keep stability on team Astana. All Contador wants is the Tour de France win, Lance has his 7, let the kid play. There are other places he can make a mark, The Giro being one of them.

The other side of the debate, would be that it's impossible for Lance to be anything but number one. He may say these wonderful things, but deep down inside, he's going to ride the Tour de France to win. Look for an announcement right after the Giro (assuming he doesn't win) stating he will ride the Tour de France in support of Contador, and then take him out in the time trials. My buddy, (who will remain nameless) put's forth these arguments. He also beleived two riders (Schumacher and Kohl) to be doping during the Tour this year, and recent reports proved him right. On this one, I hope he's wrong.

I would hope that Lance would be mature enough now to realize what is better for the sport and not what is better for him. I think it will trying times next July in France if Lance and Alberto ride the tour. And my support will be for Contador. Although, the American based team, Garmin-Chipotle (formerly, Slipstream-Chipolte) was granted a UCI license next year and will be competing at the highest level. Maybe I should root for them.

Nah, go Contador.



Now for my baby art pictures.

More pictures of Sean Patrick. Took these pictures today, well, Nicole took one of them and I took the other. Who can say if he's grown some or not. He was a big baby to begin with. I had no comparison for his size, since we were always isolated in a room. It wasn't until we checked out when he was next to another baby that I realized, we've got a little sumo wrestler on our hands.

Anyway, here's two more pics...

It would be Dan without a picture containing dramatic lighting. As Matthew would say, "Ho! Check out da manapua cheeks!"



This picture was designed to make Lindsay cry. How'd I do?


I'll tell you the story of the birth next time. It's kinda cute. But now it's shift change at the Boland residence, I get to rock the kid until 1AM and then Nicole comes back for his next feeding...


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13 October, 2008

We're No Longer D.I.N.K.S

If you didn't know, DINKS stands for "Dual Income, No KidS".

Nicole and I are no longer in that category.

Say hello to Sean Patrick Kamiano Boland. Most of you who read this blog, probably have received an email from me, or checked out pictures of Sean Patrick on my Facebook page. But for those who haven't heard or read, here's the skinny...

Sean Patrick Kamiano Boland
Born: 08:56 AM
11 October 2008
Weight: 9 lbs. 9 oz. or 4.25 kg (That's on the big side)
Height 21 inches or 53 cm
Astrological sign: Libra
Chinese Zodiac: Earth Rat
Birth Stone: Opal


We're home now. Doctor came in and said Nicole and Sean Patrick were fine to go home. He's being monitored for glucose levels because of his size. So a pediatric visit this week...

And here's some of the pictures from the first 48 hours...


Swaddled for his comfort.


Mommy and son. You'd look tired too if you pushed out that 9 lbs. linebacker. Although she did do it in 6 contractions...



One big happy...


At least we know the position he was in the womb. Or he's flashing us gang signs...


What's not to love?


IS DAT MAH BEBEH???


Yeah, dat's my bebeh...



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10 October, 2008

A Comparison of the Electoral College and Having A Child.

Great title for a blog huh? It's all I could really think of to say for this one, since we're still waiting for the kid to decide it's time to use his eyes and breathe air.

So... no. No kid, no contractions, no water breaking, no "Get me towels and hot water". Nuthin. Nicole is actually on a conference call as I write this.

Check back tomorrow.

Oh, and exciting time in the world of cycling... Raul Alcala, the greatest Mexican cyclist ever may be racing again. He started the Vuelta a Chihuahua, but I think he dropped out already. He's from my heyday of cycling. Started his career with the 7-Eleven team back in the 80's, won stages in the Tour de France, moved to race with other European based teams before returning to 7-Eleven, which became Motorola. He raced with Lance for a year or two before retiring. Now, like Lance, he's coming out of retirement (at age 44). But I think it's mostly for publicity because there is a new team forming with a possible Mexcian based sponsor.

Aside from that, no comparison of the electoral college and babies...


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09 October, 2008

Welcome Back Mun2.

In case you're wondering, the answer is no. No baby yet. Today is the due date, and the debate between cramps and contractions continues. We saw the doctor yesterday who thinks it could be within the week. Then he tells us to schedule appointments for the week of the 20th...

So I'm working today. We talked about it all week when I got the job offer, should I go or shouldn't I. It's the due date after all. We got lucky when the other guy they offered the gig to, agreed to do it only if I have to leave. He needed the day off, but he's "on call". So thank you to who ever you are.

It's an easy day so far here at Mun2 (pronounced "moon dos"). I did the shows in this "studio" all of last summer. So to a certain degree it feels like it's coming home. Although it's like coming home to a bunch of roommates who've rearranged the kitchen. I won't go into detail, but some of the programming I had on the lighting console has moved and some has disappeared.

Today is the first day, this time around, I'm working on these shows again. It seems to be easier than I remember, so thanks to the other roommates for rearranging the kitchen.

It does feel like this may become a regular gig again. They don't film as often as they did last year, which may be perfect for me in my current situation.

I think I need to bring back my comfy chair.


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07 October, 2008

Tick Tock Tick Tock...

Just waitin...

Any day now...

Of course, we've had an interesting debate today. Are they cramps or contractions? Nicole calls them cramps. And I'm not the one who's pregnant, but any kind of muscle pressure this close to the end... probably contractions... Braxton-Hicks contractions if anything. Doctor said at the last appointment, "contractions". So I'm going with the doctor on this one. Although it's not my body, and I'm never going to have these feelings so who am I to say.

I just don't want Nicole saying, "I had a cramp, peed the bed, and now here's your son," I'd much prefer, "I had a contraction, my water broke, get me to the hospital so we can have our son."

He'll be here Thursday, his due date. Why do I know? Because I just took a job on that day working at Mun2. Sort of like last Thursday when I washed my truck and on Saturday it rained. Don't worry folks, a very nice man, who needed a day off, is on call for me if I have to rush to the hospital on Thursday. So if nothing happens he gets a day off.

And we're back to hot. expect 100 degrees today in Altadena...

And lastly, we must stop Lindsay from cooking. She discovered one of the secret ingredients for good Hawai'ian BBQ cooking... Panko... A round table meeting will be held at the end of the month to decide what must be done.


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05 October, 2008

Snorus.

They say that when a woman is pregnant, it's almost like she has a permanent cold. She always sounds stuffed up, and feels low on energy. Nicole is no exception. It's 4AM and I'm awake for two reasons - Nicole and the dog. It began to sound like a snoring contest between the two of them, a "Snorus" (snore + chorus) if you will. Nicole would inhale with a rumble, the dog would exhale with a rumble. I'm actually sitting in the office now and can hear them. It's cute, I'm not complaining. In all fairness, I did go to bed rather early yesterday. I was tossing and turning trying to fall back asleep but it didn't work out and I thought I should write a blog while I had, if I can use the expression, quite time.

Sean Patrick is due on Thursday, so be prepared for this blog to be a little scarce for a couple of weeks while we get our lives situated. It's an exciting time and I'm truly looking forward to holding the little guy in my arms. I'm not looking forward to diaper changes. I have a hard enough time picking up after the dog when he gets in the trash or eats grass. But I also understand it comes with the territory so I'm a prepared as I can be.

I don't really have much to say that's new, but there are a few things that I've been meaning to post, even if it doesn't make for a whole post. So here go the tidbits.

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My dad sent me an interesting link in reference to my last blog about the website called fivethirtyeight. This website is called Network - A National Catholic Social Justice Lobby. The link he sent me can be found here, it's a really interesting chart that breaks down the Networks position on issues and the candidates positions on the same issues. Have a look, it's pretty interesting.

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I've also been meaning to respond to some of the comments left on my blog, so here's the answers-
Yes.
No.
Yes.
No.
Look at the pot calling the kettle black.
What do you mean Flash Gordon approaching?

The answers are in no particular order so please apply them to any questions you may have had and/or left in the comments.

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And finally something I promised Manny a few days ago. Sorry I didn't get to it. After you kicked my butt on the ride the other day, I could lift a finger to type on my computer, much less play my video game. But here are some of the rules, and my thoughts on riding and living on a tour bus.

Rules - unwritten but widely accepted:

- Don't poop on the bus. Only pee.

- Don't fall asleep in the lounges, that's what your bunk is for. If you do fall asleep (even if it's alcohol induced) you are fair game for graffiti on your face, trimming of you eyebrows or mustache, and any other prank that can be pulled without you waking up.

- After about a week, the bay space is set. Don't put your bag somewhere different each time because when you do, you move everyone else's stuff around. Don't be surprised if you come out and discover you bags aren't where you left them. It's probably because you put them where someone was used to putting theirs. Commonly, it's better to put your bags on the passenger side because when the bus pulls up to a hotel, that will be curbside. If you like having space and don't want to play the bag dance, put your stuff on the drivers side. You'll just have to deal with traffic whizzing by.

- Bunk choice can be determined by a number of ways, check with your production manager or "bus mom" to see what the method is. Here are some common methods. A) First come, first served. When the bus pulls up to the hotel or venue for the first time, the first person on the bus gets to choose. B) Seniority. If you are new to a tour, you often get to pick last if the tour has been going for sometime, or the crew has been together for a while. C) Bunk chart posted in production office. This method is similar to the seniority method because newbies are often scratched and moved if they are in the bunks of long time roadies.

- Not a rule, but here's my opinion on the best bunks. Most crew buses will have 12 bunks, 6 per side stacked three high. Sometimes, you'll get on a luxury tour, that has 8 bunks also known as "condos". If you get condos, every bunk is good. But if you get regular bunks, here's my choices:
1-passenger middle front, 2-passenger middle back, 3-driver middle front, 4- driver middle back, 5 - passenger bottom front, 6- passenger bottom back, 7- driver bottom front, 8- driver bottom back, 9-12 any top bunk, passenger side first. In my opinion, middle bunks are the best because they are the easiest to get in and out of. Passenger side first, because most roads always lean outward (toward the curb), that when the bus is rolling or is stopped at the curb, it will often lean slightly. Passenger side, you'll lean to the wall of the bus. Bottom bunks are fine for me because I'm fat and I don't like having to climb up to, or jump out of, a top bunk. The drawbacks to bottom bunks are that they are the coldest bunks on the bus, and you wake up with stinky feet and shoes by your face. And top bunks, see above.

- After show food and bus stock. It's up to the "bus mom" to get food stocked on the bus. Bus moms are democratically elected by the ridership of said bus. Often, bus moms run unopposed because no one really wants the job. the job of bus mom does come with perks, for example, you can veto an poor choice of bus stock, or make adjustments for the common good of the ridership. If someone is asking for something no one else on the bus will want, there's no point in getting it because it's not sharable. And speaking of which, if you put anything on the bus stock list, it's not just for you, if you put smoothies on there, don't get mad if someone else drinks one or two. And feel free to drink someone else's gatorade. It's all public property.
After show food is chosen by the production assistant and you are not allowed to complain if you get pizza 3 days in a row. Most PA's make some effort to change it up, but when you are playing in Backwater USA, often the only place open at 10PM is the pizza joint. If there is something you think everyone would enjoy, or know of a great place in a certain city (The Saltlick, near Austin, for example) Feel free to suggest it to the PA.

- Another perk of being bus mom, setting the temperature. Bus temperature should hover around 68 to 70 degrees. I know there are a ton of people out there who would like it warmer on the bus and often a thermostat war takes place, but for the good of the ridership, that is the optimal temperature. Mostly because it keeps colds and other viruses from spreading. It also keeps down the stink in the the bunk area. And believe me, it can get pretty stink. If 68 it too cold for you, put on some clothes. If you make it too warm for some, you don't want to see them walking around naked. It's easier to put on clothes or get an extra comforter out of the bay than it is to take off clothes and not sweat.


That's about it for now, I'm gonna go see if I can fall back asleep...


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01 October, 2008

A Moment of Political Weakness.

It was an election year when I was in fourth grade. In our Social Studies class, we spent a lot of time learning about it and the process for electing a president. Mr. Danks was my social studies teacher back then. He had taken one wall of his class room and hung cork board panels up, one for each candidate that was running. I know I could do research to tell who the candidates were, but I'm not gonna. I'm feeling too lazy to do it. But I do remember there was an independent running (Anderson?) who seemed to have a real shot. We also had cork boards for the other lesser known parties at the time, like the Libertarians and believe it or not, the Communist Party. We were entrusted by Mr. Danks to go out and find any campaign swag(for the lack of a better word) for each candidate and place it on the cork boards. The democrat and republican candidate cork boards filled up quickly with pins and posters, as did the independent candidate, while everyone else was a little bare.

I learned a lot about the process of electing a president back then. I learned about the electoral college, why no other parties had a real shot at winning the election besides and Democrats or the Republicans, and sometimes an independent. Mr. Danks would often preach to us about the greatness of our political process and the greatness of the independent candidate. A week before the actual election, we held a mock vote in class with a ballot that featured all the candidates.

The independent candidate, John B. Anderson (I looked it up), won. The Democrat (Carter) was second, and the Republican (Reagan) was third. No one else received any of the precious 30 votes in our class. But it goes to show you two things; 1 - Mr. Danks standing on his soap box preaching about the great independent had an effect on the outcome. And 2 - 4th graders have no idea how to vote. Well maybe that's not true, but without hearing all the facts, my 4th grade class voted the election backwards that year.

During all this, I would ask my father what he thought about the presidential candidates and who he would vote for. He never did tell me who he voted for. He always believed in the privacy of his vote. When pressed he would answer, "I will be voting for the lesser of two evils," A motto he uttered every election year.

I have a motto I utter more often than every election year, "There are three things I don't discuss, religion, politics and the Great Pumpkin." Why? Because those are three hot button topics that everyone has a different view on and none of us will ever see things the same (especially the Great Pumpkin). Like my father, I never tell anyone who I'm voting for. Nicole may think she knows, but I don't think I've ever told her outright. It kind of gets her goat when she presses me and I say, "I'm voting for the lesser of two evils."

All this to make a point, I'm never going to blog about political stuff here. It's not my nature and if you really want to know what's going on in the elections, there's plenty of places on the net for that. But today is a moment of political weakness (of sorts) and I am going to post a link that I find very interesting.

If you have HD television, somewhere in the fray is a channel called HDNet. When Dan Rather was unceremoniously forced into retirement, HDNet gave him a 60 minutes like show called, "Dan Rather Reports". Aside from it being stunning to watch in HD (although in my opinion, they over-light Mr. Rather in an attempt to soften his wrinkles), he has some really interesting stories. I couldn't tell you what night the new episodes are, it seems to be on a few times a week in the afternoon, but yesterdays edition had a couple of interesting stories.

The one I'm posting about today featured an analyst that started a website called fivethirtyeight.com. He was a former baseball analyst who took his theorems that he created for baseball stats and applied them to the polls for president that we have today. The government and the media seem to put a lot of emphasis on polls. Entry polls, exit polls, debate polls, rolly polly polls. This guy and his website take all the raw data from the dozens of polls done daily and applies them to what seem to be "real life". On Dan Rather Reports, he said something interesting that I'm going to attempt to summarize; Most polls claim a +/- accuracy of 3%. When in reality it's closer to 5 or 6%. Why? The example that struck me the most is that most 18-30 year olds today don't have a home phone and most conduct business on a cell phone. Because cell phones are on a "do not call" list, the amount of 18-30 year olds that pollsters can get a hold of is fewer, so they fudge the facts a little. As an example, if they get a hold of 10 youngsters and 6 are for McCain and 4 are for Obama, they will balloon the figure, make the assumption that if this holds true for 10, then there is a strong likelihood of it holding true for 100. So they report 60 for McCain and 40 for Obama.

While this all seems wrong, according to fivethirtyeight.com, the data needs more processing. Which they do. Have a look, it's a very non-biased website (I think) no political lean that I can see. FYI, the name, fivethirtyeight, refers to the number of electoral college votes available.

And in case you're wondering who I'm voting for... I'm voting for the Great Pumpkin.



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